father-son relationships, in the living years

south park's mr. garrison:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=booUd8KkIZY&feature=related

friends you know that there's a show called 'south park' and in it there's a very gay schoolteacher called mr. garrison who is pretty messed up in the brain and at one point becomes upset with his father because his father never flirted with him or wanted to have sex with him....

but what if your father is dead?

mike and the mechanics: the living years:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGDA0Hecw1k

what if you never got around to asking your father to have sex with you? alot of men are walking around with that grief buddy... that's for sure... what if you never even knew your father? fat chance of asking him to have sex with you then buddy....

my father probably would have said the usual: 'sometimes i think you are mentally retarded...'

maybe even a two handed shove in the chest like that time at the bus-stop...

i wonder....